Does the boy want to date you or just screw you?

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Tell me please! You meet a guy and he totally makes the first move toward talking to you and flirting with you. You ask him if he's hitched or not and he won't answer you. That tells me he's HITCHED and trying to get a little side action going. But then again, who knows for sure? Hold on, let's start at the start.

So, this guy I work with suddenly starts talking to me out of the blue one day. He always talks about being naked. So of course, I shoot back with something naughty, because it's the right thing to do. LOL! He's a nice enough guy and I figure it's all naughty joking because that's how I am. I make everything into a joke. If you aren't laughing, you're crying and that is never fun (unless you're watching The Notebook with a guy). I make a joke about sexual positions and he replies with how he likes it. Totally wasn't expecting that reply. I laugh hysterically for about 10 seconds then sit there staring at my computer monitor in silence. Back and forth we go with the suggestive remarks etc and then I ask the question. Married or no? He avoids answering the question. I call him on it and he makes it clear he isn't going to answer it. Screams married...I think? I have done some sleuthing along the way and I don't think he is. At least that's the way it looks, but I have NO real clue if it's really a yes or no. I'd like to know what I am walking into, that's all.

Maybe he's embarrassed or something. Maybe he was married and it didn't work out. I really don't know. He also says that he likes to keep his private life private - which I totally get. 98% of the people I work with know nothing about my private life and I'd like to keep it that way as well. That other 2% are friends outside of work and don't gossip about me & my life. If they did, we wouldn't be friends. Gossipers should be set on fire in my opinion. In this situation though, you tell me how you like to fuck yet you won't tell me if you're married or not because it's private? Sounds like someone is trying to get some under the radar. After my X, I swore I would never mix work and my private life however this guy has always been an exception to the rule. Guess I should just put all of my energy into learning that other language or something.

Yo realmente no cuido si está casado. Yo sólo quiero saber lo que ando en.


Love & Muffins
XO



Comments

  1. Sherry )O( AutumnTurtleFebruary 25, 2012 at 2:05 AM

    I say married but that is just what I think. It sucks that you work with him and if it doesn't work out then there is that strange reactions to each other. Do you feel like he is worth the effort, guess you are waiting for his next move.
    Best of luck single chick!

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